God’s Wounded Warriors
for Boys
"Sword of the Spirit"
“Put on the FULL armor of GOD,
Taking up the shield of faith
The helmet of salvation with
The Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.
So you may be able to stand against the schemes of the enemy.¹
Greetings, fellow warrior. My name is Cooper, and together, my mother and I wanted to write a book for boys who, like me, have been called to battle as God's Warriors. You are being called to battle against good and evil, right and wrong, to protect the helpless and vulnerable.
God says, "For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against persons without bodies—the evil rulers of the unseen world, who rule wicked spirits in the spirit world."²
You may have already read about me in Macy's Barn Cat or Horses Hoped For, which are mostly about my sisters. This book is about boys becoming men because without our strength and wisdom from God, our mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters will be attacked and taken captive by the enemy.
We men can't do this alone. We must do it God's way, and He says, "Apart from Me, you can do nothing."³ This is one of your weapons: Sword of the Spirit is the Word of God! Read this promise every day to remain strong in the spirit.
Now, my Son, I'm sure you want to hear how I became a Wounded Warrior. Are you a Wounded Warrior too?
My Son, your wounds and my wounds are a valuable secret weapon of war. The custody battle is one wound that the enemy has used to destroy future warriors. When a parent leaves because of the strange woman or the lusts of the flesh, both described in the book of Proverbs. Even the strongest man in history, Samson, failed to win this battle, but God used it for good in the end because Samson destroyed all the evil men. Warriors "know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”⁵ Read this promise and weapon of war when you wake up and before you close your eyes at night, which will unlock a treasure chest full of promises.
When you reading God's promises, day and night, it will unleash incredible superpower. A warrior's "delight is in the Law of the LORD, and he thinks about it day and night. That person is like a tree planted by streams of water, which produces fruit in season and whose leaf does not wilt—and whatever they do prospers."⁶
My Son, during most custody battles, children are emotionally cut in two—by the parents or the court. When Solomon, the wisest man of all time, faced the difficult decision of judging between two mothers who said the same child was theirs, he called for a sword to divide the baby in half. The true mother begged the king to spare the child's life, which showed she was the real mother.
During the custody battle for my two sisters and me, our parents agreed that one would have sole custody and the other visitation. But, not long after, we were captured and held hostage until our one parent decided to give up custody because God says, "Agree with your enemy quickly,"⁷ and I was in danger.
While riding my bike down a steep hill, I flew over the handlebars and broke my left wrist. In the hospital, I had surgery and the surgeon drilled pins in to hold the bones steady that stuck out from my blue cast.
After leaving the hospital, we visited our other parent and their new family. Desperate to have us live with them, my sisters and I were not returned. But the pins in my wrist needed to be taken out before they stayed attached to my wrist bones. So our parent, who the courts gave custody to, agreed to surrender custody so we would live with their family.
Unfortunately, some battles leave permanent damage. The pins were in too long, so I can't move my left arm, and I was born left-handed—but "GOD meant it for good."⁸ Now I use both arms! I am ambidextrous like the brave men who joined David when he fought King Saul. "These [ambidextrous] men helped David in battle. They could shoot arrows from their bows with either their right or left hand. They could also throw stones from their slings with either their right or left hand."⁹
"You will need the helmet of salvation [not just] the sword of the Spirit—which is the Word of God."¹⁰
My first battle wound as a warrior happened when I was just a baby. I fell backward off the bunkbeds and landed on my head. A few weeks later, my oldest brother shouted, "Come quick!!!! Come quick!!!! Something's wrong with Cooper!" I was shaking violently until they suddenly stopped. My body was left stiff, and my arms were drawn up, which meant I had brain damage.
My mother once cared for was severely brain damaged—a happy five-year-old boy who couldn't walk, speak, or "play" like other children. But rather than call for emergency medical help, my parents remembered what God said, "I am the LORD, who heals you. I am the LORD, your healer.”¹¹
They also remembered the power of praise. So my family (my parents and five older siblings) began singing praise songs—when suddenly, God came to live in "the praises of His people."¹² Suddenly, my arms and legs started to relax, and God healed me! And my brain and intelligence grew larger, too.
Three youths were thrown into a furnace by King Nebuchadnezzar in the book of Daniell,¹³ and they refused to bow down to the King (like my parents refused to bow down to modern medicine). They came out unharmed "from the furnace of blazing fire. Like Daniel in the lion's den, each boy was determined to live according to God's law."¹⁴
My Son, whatever God has for the future, no matter what, I will continue to say, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith, in the future there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness.”¹⁵ Will you join me?
Well, my story is over. What part did you like the best? But, my Son, I'd love to hear your story. Comment below and share your name, BNN, how old you are, and if you are a wounded warrior and want to join me in battle.
During and after the divorce, my son, who was 6 at the time, acted out. My daughter did not say anything, but my son cried many nights, saying his daddy left him. At school, he would tell the teachers that he did not have a father whenever they had to speak about their parents. I was also called in a couple of times because he would get into fights with his classmates. It broke my heart to see him so hurt and angry.
But I am so grateful to read this lesson and for the confirmation that our Beloved and children’s Heavenly Father heals all wounds and turns bad situations around for good when we trust in Him and make Him our Best Friend, Wonderful Counsellor, and Great Physician.
Since the divorce I could see how my son’s Heavenly Father started to heal him and now that he is homeschooling, he changed so much, and the anger has subsided tremendously. He is such a sweet boy now and is always ready with a hug or an “I love you”. He is also turning into my little helper, always there to help me fix something or put something together.
Consider reading the FULL, unabridged version of God's Wounded Warriors, suited for youth or to study with your younger son.
Mothers and grandmothers of sons, please comment below to help water our new Sons branch with encouragement about what you'd like to see so that we can ENCOURAGE you when raising your sons and grandsons.
For this page specifically, I'd love to hear from you about:
YOUR son, his age, and whether or not he enjoyed reading this story or having it read to him.
About the cover and anything else your Husband pointed out to you. Whether it's here or part of another HGM Branch, speak to your Husband and your son's Father first so we share true wisdom, which we can never achieve on our own. "Apart from Me, you can do nothing."¹⁶
Thank you, Adina, your testimony has been added to the book.
I am still in a reading-understanding process of this lesson, reading it over alone first so when I do with my son I have some answers, he always asks some interesting questions. As a mother of the only boy among my siblings and all with some broken family issue, I am working to make Him a family leader and in the process, I am being prepared, literally!
The title “God´s wounded warrior” called my attention because he has been wounded (and I have tried to protect his little heart so much) and because he is serving our Lord the way he can, by doing actions with his Heavenly Father pleasant to both. He is still innocent to our marital situation. So I am asking my HH to show me a way to read this with him without having to explain, something that I know he has hidden in somewhere and is ashamed or affraid to ask me.
I do believe God allows things to happen for our own good, the tests and trials we go through are for us to see that we need Him, we can´t without Him. My son, who is almost twelve (but acts much older) and love football (soccer), had his heart broken different times, it broke mine too, but it also made both of us stronger. He is very empathic with people and is so conscious for his age about life and death. I am asking his HH to have His will in our life as we both go on a new journey, he moving to early teenager, and telling me “It´s a boy thing, you wouldn’t understand” also tells me that I will need my HH more now than ever.
Thank you for your input, Jewel. I’ve read your comment several times because I wanted to hear what my Husband and Cooper’s Father had to say.
One of the first things that jumped out, and it’s so important when raising boys, is when a mother protects her son. Boys cannot become men when they are not permitted to deal with adversity. It is one of the main reasons (maybe the only reason) my youngest son was taken from me. I am in no way saying that if you’re not careful, it will happen to you. NO, not at all. It’s just what my Husband keeps reminding me, why I was not in his life for so many years until he became the husband and father of four daughters.
It took me, his mother, being completely non-existent in his life, and also having sisters whom he instinctively began to “protect” since they didn’t have their mother’s and their father’s “protection” was neglected (which happens with “blended” families and the “couple’s” focus is on themselves, not their children.
During our conversations, my Husband reminded me of how a baby boy is much different than a baby girl, and as he grows, he must be allowed to experience God’s perfect design to be the man of God, who is equipped to protect and provide for his family. My 3 oldest boys had a father around until they were old enough to marry. So they had the influence of a father, which is important for maturity. When they were little, he was basically gone for two years, however, that’s when they became “all boys.”
It’s in our nature as mothers to mother our children, but if you look at the world and the extremes that mothers have taken this to, where they are actually trying to turn their sons into daughters, then we see how dangerous this evil has become.
I would tell any mother to remember that your son has a Father and let his Father be the one to protect, guide, and raise him to be more than you ever dreamed.
I loved this story so so much. It has helped increase my FAITH which is what I have been praying for!! I will be reading it to my son tonight!! 🙂 I will also read the full story!