At first things were not going well.

Hello darlings
Today I want to share with you something that He reminded me about the beginning of my journey, and that I can now see that if I’m here today it’s only because He was with me and our daughter from the beginning of this fantastic journey. Thank you my love!
At one of our Zoom meetings, some restored brides shared with us how the crisis in their marriages had affected their children’s lives. And I could only smile and thank Him for becoming not only my Heavenly Husband, but also the Heavenly Father that our daughter needs.
At first things were not going well. I was in so much pain and despair that I thought I had the right to take my disappointments and frustrations out on my daughter. I loved her very much, but sometimes in my mind I thought that if I gave up on living it would be the best option. But it was then that He drew me close and invited me to run the race, giving me faith and hope that everything would work out for our good.
And this is what happened.
With all his love and care, he introduced me to RMI, and it was here that he taught me the principles that changed my life, transforming me into a new woman. It taught me to be a better mother, to love taking care of my home, and to want to be a Home Worker.
This transformation did not happen overnight, and I know I still have a lot to learn, but I cannot stop praising the Lord for this great miracle that He performed in my family.
Today I can look at my 10-year-old daughter, and after everything we’ve been through, I can see that there is no sequel in her heart and mind as a result of the divorce. Today she knows that family is God’s project. She is aware that the Lord hates divorce, and that His desire is for all families to be restored.
She accompanies me throughout my journey. She has already seen my despair in some situations in the past, but what she has seen is how happy I am to have Him as my Love, Friend, Confidant, and of course as my Husband.
We no longer miss anything, because He has been our EVERYTHING.
Today, not only I, but she also knows of His will and desire, to restore our family, but we no longer have anxiety about anything, we don’t worry about anything, we are just living the abundant life, without murmuring, sadness, hurt or pain … Today we are happy in Him, because He is our joy and our strength.
Darling, if you still have some concerns about your children, about how they will be in the future, how this future will unfold, which all of us mothers want to be good for our children, know that He will take care of you and of yours, because as He Himself says in His word “And all your children shall be taught of the Lord; and the peace of thy children shall be abundant.” Isaiah 54:13.
Be encouraged!

8 thoughts on “At first things were not going well.”

  1. Marta, this praise makes my heart jump of joy!!!!!!!!!!!! Love to read what our Beloved is doing in both of your lives!!!
    It is heartbreaking to think that our children could suffer from our journeys, but He truly makes everything works for our good!!!
    Brincy is such a special child, and I am so happy to have her as a part of our ministry!!
    Please continue to shower her with His promises and love and I hope to see my sweet brincy writting a praise on our youth blog!!!
    https://homegrownministries.com/youth-blog/

    1. Yes my dear Isabella, at first we didn’t understand, and that’s why we worried about how our children’s journey will unfold, but it’s so wonderful when we take hold of that promise of our Beloved for us and for the children too, that everything will cooperate for our good.
      Thank you for your care and love always. And Brincy will indeed write her praise soon, unfortunately she is in a month of many school activities, and we are talking to our Beloved about this, so that she can have more time available, and be able to feed more of everything we have available here on the Young Blog.

  2. Oh Marta, thank you for sharing this praise, I have also long worried about the effects of my mistakes on my children. I am so glad you shared this with us. Because I can still worry about the future. Because I co-parent with their father who is not a believer, but reading how your daughter sees those changes and learns what her Heavenly Father has for her and is now so happy gives me hope. I am therefore very happy😍for you and your daughter how your HH takes care of you.

    1. Oh sweet Kristine, I totally understand you, because everything that refers to our children often brings this concern to our minds. With your comment I remembered the lesson that helped me a lot to “let go” of worrying about everything related to my Brincy, which is chapter 12 of the book Finding the Abundant Life – Your best protection. Of course, I must always run to Him.
      Glad you came here, and thanks for your comment.

      Much love to you dear.

  3. As moms it’s so scary when we go thru separation… the 1st thing we think about is our kids and how it affects their future 😥 it’s so hard when they are young trying to explain why their dad is not around.. for me like u it was just me and my daughter and we lived in another town, we had no family, we were on our own… im so glad you shared this praise Marta. like you the best thing was finding this ministry and learning that God wants to restore and rebuild our families and that what we were going thru He was using for GOOD PTL 🙌🏾 I’m going to share your Praise on H@L to encourage the women there😊

    1. Yes dear Atara, at the beginning things are difficult, but it’s good that we found Him and now we can spread to everyone that yes, There is Hope! Let us then share this Hope so that many may come to know Him and have Him as the wonderful Husband and Father that He is!🌷💕

  4. Yes!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep sharing please!!! There are a lot of moms that need your wisdom, your hope and joy!!! Thank you for opening your hearts!!1

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