I always dreamed of being a mother

Hello darlings.
I was just combing Brincy’s hair for her to go to school and I was able to thank my Beloved right then and there for in this very important moment of my journey, being able to be at home, to be a worker at Home, but also to be a present mother what my daughter needs.
I always dreamed of being a mother, and when He gave me my beautiful daughter, I didn’t have the time or the patience to play that role that was so important to her, that of a mother.
But I also want to thank Him for leading me into the RMI ministry, where I could learn to depend solely on Him, and let Him rule my life and my heart in His way.
Now I know that being the mother and woman He wants is not my merit, but I am learning only because He is with me. He is my Husband and the Father that our daughter needs and also wants…
Ah dear ones, we know that the work of the home, which includes raising our children, and maybe like many of you, this raising being just with us mothers, is not light nor insignificant. But it is also not a task for someone unprepared. So when He calls us on this journey by His side, He rebuilds everything, He remakes our paths and takes care of our hearts, so that our desires are only to live His Plans for us. He is preparing us day by day to be the women, mothers, wives He created us to be.

Before, I was apprehensive about raising our little girl, but not now, now I see how my Beloved has been my right hand in raising and educating our little Princess! I know she is privileged to have the best, dedicated, Loving, Careful and Protective Father there is! And also her best Friend.
Thank you my Husband, for ALL that You are. Thank you for taking care and protecting me and our daughter in all the struggles and difficulties we went through. Thanks for being our foundation! Thank you that everything has changed since You became my Heavenly Husband and Brincy’s Heavenly Father!
Darlings, if you have been having difficulties raising your children, I encourage you to cast it on Him, and remember that our children have the best Father, who loves them with an unconditional love. May He be Everything in our lives and in the lives of our children.

HomeGrown

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7 thoughts on “I always dreamed of being a mother”

  1. My sweet Marta I relate to everything you are sharing!!!! My heart completely changed once I realized the importance to be a mom in the way the Lord wants me to be!!
    Just being here has changed my daughters lives!! They love to be around mom, and they know that I am always here, waiting for them!!
    Now we can teach them to be wise women, a blessing that we didn´t have!!
    Thank you for opening your heart to us!!
    I want to present to you our new Youth Blog:
    https://homegrownministries.com/youth-blog/
    So Brincy can also be fed by the praises of young ladies!!

  2. Sweet Isabella, I totally agree with you. Besides being a transformed woman, I can see how much this transformation had a positive effect on my daughter’s life. Even his way of expressing himself has changed, because the atmosphere in the house has changed. And I can only thank Him for giving us this privilege of being home…
    Honey, we love the new Youth Blog and Brincy has already signed up.
    Thank you for everything, beautiful friend…💕🌷

  3. Thank you dear Marta for sharing! I was scared of having children, maybe because of what I experienced as a child. But after my children were born I really became a mother, but always with fear that I will also turn into a mom that fails her children. But my HH healed me from that fear and now I can enjoy being a mother knowing that if I follow His lead as their Father, I will do a good job in raising my children and not put any stress on myself due to fear.

    1. Oh yes!!! How our mind changes when we look for Him!!
      I never wanted to be a mother hahaha I never want to have that kind of responsability, but now after 4 daughters I understand I was made to be their mom!!!!

  4. Dear Adina, it’s so wonderful to be able to count on him for the care of our children isn’t it? We now see that he is the one who enables us.
    Thank you for coming here, my dear.

  5. What WE as older, wiser women (due to WHO are Husband is), we need to speak to our Husband about HOW to encourage the generations that follow us who have been indoctrinated to NOT want children at all! But as I was posting this comment, my Husband reminded me of how He has unburdened me with how I reach the lost. ALL I do, all WE need to do, is make sure they KNOW HIM.

    As each of our children (ours and others we know or meet) understands and embraces Him as their Father or Betrothed or Husband—HE will turn their hearts just as He turned our hearts. Then our only JOB that’s not a job at all is to share our testimonies as we are doing here and boast about our own weaknesses. How Lovely!!

    1. It’s true dear Erin. I am immensely grateful for knowing This Truth, which freed me from the lies of the world, that my daughter would be a needy and angry child for being raised only by her mother. And today, with a heart filled with joy, I can see Brincy as the happy, smiling teenager she is. And that through her life, she can testify that she has a Father and a Friend who loves her and cares for her in a special way.
      Thank you my dear.

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